Done with school for 8 months after this semester.

Thats right. Three months or so traveling. Then its off to IHOP for an internship. There i will pray my heart out every night.

I'm really looking forward to no school. I've got to start saving up money for everything.

One of my goals at IHOP will be to ask God to give me a place to serve. I know i'm going into ministry, but where and how is still a mystery. And who knows...maybe i'll reform IHOP while i'm at it...haha.

Anyway, i'm sick. Cold i think. And now i'm hungry. I think i keep swallowing toilet paper through my nose...grb.


God is doing some real work in me right now. It's like he's showing me exactly how He works. Defining Himself to me. Hopeffuly i ca start actually applying this stuff soon.

I heard March For Life went well this year. That make me joyful.

Bikes, Bibles, and Bottles is on its way.

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Sorry, I know all of you who love my blog have been quite disappointed as of late, but i promise when i find enough time to blog i will.

Cheers,

I'm sick of school...

and it hasn't even started yet.

I really want to just skip it... I want to just go and do something that will mean something in the end. Sure, i can do ministry now, but i hate having to tote this bag around with me the whole time.

My friends Adam and Mary Dawn got married last night. I'm so happy for them, they are close friends and i've known Mary Dawn since freshman year of high school. So its kinda weird her beating me to marriage. Now, Adam took his sweet time getting there, but i'm stoked for them both. So, congrats to the Carriers!

I really need money. Insurance, school, guitar stuff, bike trip. Needs to be paid for....

Speaking of bike trips. I need to get on it more about planning mine. Me and Tim need to get back on the proverbial and not sure metaphorical wheel of training...


And it seems at this point our trip will lead us through the town of a very-close friend. Well, at one time close friend... Its quite the fiasco of events and feelings. Me and my friend haven't been close for the last two months for many reasons on many different levels... And at first i thought i wouldn't miss my friend as much as i think i do now... I don't like what happened between us. I freaked out, and raised hell, and my friend broke down or so it seems. And now we are here...And i wish we weren't.

So many things changed in my friend...Well maybe not changed, I don't believe character to change, but shift. I don't think character changes, but is always there. I think that your character can be bad and your behavior still be good. It has to be i think to lead to better character. So perhaps my friend just had a shift in behavior and my friends character is still weak at this point. I don't want to be a name caller or make my friend sound like an asshole. But i am in the same boat with weak character. But as you build character these shifts don't happen as often.

I have been able to, in the past, continue some form of stable friendship even with character shifts like this, but not with the same kind of person. So i don't know.

This isn't the first time this has happened like this... Since it really isn't the first time something similar to this has happened. But, it has given me perspective about how i handle my friends when something like this happens... I notice the consistent pattern; 1. Disagree 2. Argue/plead 3. commit to some form of righteous silence. and finally wonder if i really handled the problem well...

I often wonder if i am treating the situation with enough gentleness and grace. Well...I know i haven't. I have tried to repent for the obvious times, but what about my methodology? I have began to wonder if my response lines up with what Jesus would do...except I don't recall Jesus having the same dynamic in a relationship as this instance. I'm going to begin to ask God if i should do something different.

It is very tough. Watching someone you have been so close to throw a fist of disregard into the face of God. Not only has the door been open but my friend is walking through it. I worry. Alot. Its a mix of a sort of postmortem regret and the sense of being on train that has no brakes and being tied to the front end of the locomotive. But those feeling must be met with prayer, with God, with my willingness to abandon control. My friend and I may never reconnect, but that is far from the aim anymore. Those who understand the seriousness of the situation i think would agree that there are far more important things at the forefront of the subject's battlefront than satisfying my desires.

I believe i was kept out the informational loop between friends when it comes to me and my friend's nearing-regress relationship. Which has caused me different kinds of griefs. Its one thing to not be able to control a situation, but when you don't know the whole or even majority of the information related to the person its a different beast. Its like when we hit algebra in school. We all thought we had it figured out when we had a decent grasp on pluses and minuses that when we were introduced to unknown factors and what ever the heck that animal stick figure was we wet our pants at our lack of knowledge when we believed that we knew the subject of math so very well.

That sort of reaches the level of what i feel towards this.

So what am i to do? I'm not sure. I don't want to claim to know everything about my friend's issues, though i have the evidence in my head to understand at least a few of them, that i end up spreading rumors...I won't be that foolish again...

I think it really does come down to my desire to see my friend far more alive in Christ than i see my friend being now. It out cries my desire for relationship and my desire to be "justified" or what ever lamenting bitterness that broken relationships generate.

"I just want you to come home honey. Maybe not mine, but at least His. Our houses are still built on sand no matter what we want to say and the waves are getting higher... "

Home, Sweet Home...

Well, i'm back from Kansas City. Ihop was wonderful. I'm still praying about going, and interning.


There have been things that have lingered with me through and after the conference...

.The Holy Spirit in His infiinte wisedom didn't choose to touch me with power like i had hoped... But He told me something, something very important.

"I will sustain you" And "I love you, Joshua".

Those two things among a few other words did i come away with really struck me.

I keep looking for these deep experiences to maintain my fatih in God, but God isn't doing that, even though he has before. He wants me to be faithful and waiting for Him. Not demanding, and not living for the next spiritual rush. My faith and true faith i think goes so far beyond rushing experiences and feelings. I must choose to follow Christ everyday, and if He decides to give me those Holy Spirit moments I accept them and rejoice the same. It was really wearing me down that God wasn't giving me anything for the first couple days, but then i had to dial down and reexamine my motives. My job is to give God glory and love Him with all my heart. He, in His love, will do what is needed. My trust has to come without God giving me every little desire right away.


I have always understood God's love to be static and a bit boring. Always, thinking God loved me sort of like a grandfather loves His grandchilren. But a new idea has seemed to arise... That God loves me like one loves his wife. That i am caught up in a romance with God. That God is truely in love with what His Father created. I still do not understand all that is to be known about this but i am dedicated to knowing it fully.

I beginning to desire prayer. To be in a constant state of prayer, to intercede of behalf of my family, friends, community, and world. Even though God chooses what to do with everything i offer Him, He still wants me to give it to Him as an offering.


I just want to be with my Father, my Lover and Creator. And to know each of those parts of God to the fullest.


That might take awhile....